But I don’t think it’s fair for him to be angry that I didn’t blow him. I get that maybe he was hoping I’d change my mind, especially after I changed my mind about him sucking my dick. I’m concerned about what our friends think of me, but even more so, I’m concerned that I did a shitty thing. Now he’s bitching to our mutual friends about how I had an insecure straight-boy freak-out, he didn’t get to come after we both got ours, we’re shitty selfish fetishists, and so on. My girlfriend and I both got pissed and said he had to leave. I said no, he kept badgering me to do it, I kept saying no, and then he physically tried to shove my head down toward his crotch. A bit later, while my girlfriend was sucking his dick, he said he wanted me to join her. I ended up saying yes, but I stated that I didn’t want to reciprocate. I wasn’t sure about it at first, but my girlfriend encouraged it because she thought it was hot. A little bit into us hooking up, he said he wanted to suck my dick. We made it clear that I’m not into guys and that she was going to be the center of attention. We recently had a threesome with a bi male acquaintance. Q: I’m a straight guy in a LTR with a bi woman. But I don’t feel that way at all.”ĭon’t be the Florence Nightingale of oral sex I know-now-that he thinks it is a bit unfair to me.
And, yes, I’ve jacked off thinking about it after each time I sucked him. He has a really nice dick! And from my perspective, we’re both having fun. I really like sucking dick and I’m really enjoying sucking his dick. “I suppose it is a ‘lopsided sexual arrangement,'” said Sam. So does this lopsided sexual arrangement-blowing a straight boy who’s never going to blow him-bother Sam? We even started joking about it right away.” When he started taking his clothes off, I thought, ‘So this is going to happen.’ It was not awkward after. I wondered for a minute if it would be weird for me to blow my friend, and there was definitely a bit of convincing each other that we were serious. I swear I wasn’t making a pass at my straight friend! But there was this long pause, and then he got serious and said he’d be into it. “When I told him I’d be happy to help him out, I was joking. “I didn’t know until after he broke up with his girlfriend that he hadn’t gotten a blow job the whole time they were together-four years!” Sam said. Which means I have no way of knowing for sure why that woman ghosted you or if your boyfriend is gay-or in your case, THROAT, how Sam feels about the four unreciprocated blow jobs he’s given you. And while I’m perfectly happy to speculate, I’m not a mind reader. Guys ask me why a woman ghosted them, and women ask me if their boyfriend is secretly gay. Zooming out for a second: People constantly ask me how the person they’re fucking or fisting or flogging feels about all the fucking or fisting or flogging they’re doing. What should I do? -Totally Have Reservations Over Advantage TakingĪ: Only one person knows how Sam feels about this “lopsided sexual arrangement,” THROAT, and it isn’t me-it’s Sam. But these are literally the only blow jobs I’ve received since I was a teenager.
Sam knows I am not into guys and I’m never going to reciprocate, and I feel like this is probably not really fair to him. He’s a very good buddy, and I’m concerned this lopsided sexual arrangement might be bad for our friendship.
My problem is I am starting to feel guilty and worry I am using Sam. Since then, Sam has blown me three more times. I was glad to get some and had no hang-ups about a guy sucking me. Shortly after breaking up with my girlfriend, I was discussing my lack of oral sex with him and he said he’d be willing to “help me out.” I agreed, and Sam gave me an earth-shattering blow job. Which brings me to why I am writing: One of my closest friends, “Sam,” is a gay guy. I didn’t get a blow job the whole time we were together. She had a particular aversion to oral sex-both giving and receiving. One of the reasons we broke up was a general lack of sexual compatibility. Q: I am a 24-year-old straight guy who recently broke up with my girlfriend of more than four years.